Manhattan's Best Coffee Shops By Subway Stops

This is genius! Butterfruit Labs has created New York Coffee Map, a free Andoid app that maps out the best coffee shops near every subway stop in Manhattan. According to the app, locations were selected based on equipment, beans, professional and customer reviews and duplicates were avoided. The majority of the spots are indie coffee houses that represent their neighborhood so I was happy to find a few that I've visited on the list: Buunni, Lalo, Indian Road, Chipped Cup, and Java Girl. It's definitely giving me the itch to grab my MetroCard and check out some of their other picks.

Manhattanites, do you agree with their choices?

PORTFOLIO

For the past eight years I've covered breaking news, travel, entertainment, career & money, health, love & sex and other lifestyle topics for newspapers, magazines, websites, books and iPad applications. Below, a collection of some of those stories. You can read my posts/thoughts about the stories written over the last couple of years here. And if you'd like to pitch me an idea or would like me to contribute to your publication, please send me an email at dorkysramos[at]gmail.com. Thanks!
                                 
Magazines

Anthology
"A Stylist's Design Solutions," Summer 2012 (A tour of Kirsten Grove's Boise, Idaho home.)
"Fun and Games," Summer 2011 (A look into Brooklyn design team Fredericks and Mae.)

Travel + Leisure
"Travel + Leisure Family," March 2011 (A biannual insert for targeted subscribers.) 
"25 Most Romantic Hotels," February 2011 (The 25 most romantic hotels around the world. I wrote on hotels in Jamaica, Spain and Morocco.)

Woman's Day
"A Miami Getaway," March 2011 (What to do and see on a family vacation to the Magic City.)

Latina
"25 Ways to Rev Up Your Romance," August 2011 (Creative ways to keep the spark alive.)
"What to Learn from a Breakup," March 2011 (How to use the end of a relationship to take a closer look at yourself and your choices."
"You Can Beat Diabetes," November 2010 (How you can manage your diabetes or prevent it altogether.)
"A Guide to Digital Dating," October 2010 (From sexting to online stalking, here are some new relationship rules.)
"Love Him or Leave Him?" September 2010 (We help you assess four common problems couples face - and whether you can work them out.)
"Your Best Body," May 2010 (How to stay healthy and on track through your 20s, 30s, 40s and beyond.)
"Mistaken Identity," April 2010 (The prevalence of Lupus, a chronic autoimmune disease, amongst Latinas.)

"Survival of the Fittest," March 2010 (How to handle life's unexpected surprises such as identity theft, running into an ex and bad dates.)
"In Due Time," February 2010 (Why more women are waiting to have children and what the consequences could be.)
"Breaking the Cycle," October 2009 (Why breast cancer is the leading cause of cancer deaths amongst Latinas.)
"Love Lessons," March 2009 (How my parents' unsuccessful marriage skewed my view on relationships and what I learned once I was finally in one.)
"Work and Play," February 2009 (Volunteer vacations that let you have fun while doing good.)

Time Out New York
"Cheap Massages and Spa Services," January 28- February 3, 2010
"City Library: Books Being Read by Television Executives," September 4- 10, 2008
"City Library: Books Currently Being Read by Editors at Major Publishing Houses," June 22- 30, 2008


Newspapers

Manhattan Times
"Secrets of their Success: Coogan's adapts to a changing demographic," August 28, 2008
"We Will Survive! LatinaSHARE builds a network of survivors," September 6, 2007
"Oasis parks: A guide to Northern Manhattan's most peaceful retreats," August 16, 2007
"Organization Serves New York's Gay Latino Community," July 26, 2007
"Artist's illustrations enliven hospital," July 26, 2007

The Post-Standard
"Behind the Myth," May 18, 2006
"Archiving Architecture," April 20, 2006
"'You Always Want Better for Your Kid'," March 27, 2006 


Online

BET.com
Coverage of urban culture, entertainment, fashion and lifestyle news.
 
TravelandLeisure.com
"Sheraton New York Gets a $150 Million Makeover," December 26, 2011
"America's Best Family Hotels," July 29, 2011
"Editor Find: Illustrated Maps," July 22, 2011


Latina.com
"Latinas Twice as Likely to Develop Cervical Cancer," January 19, 2011
"New Year, New You: 8 Tips on How to Keep Your Resolutions," January 7, 2011
"Get Smooth Summer Skin," June 1, 2010
"Quick Tips to Improve Your Credit Score," April 15, 2010

"Eight Ways to Avoid Holiday Debt," December 21, 2009
"How to Prevent H1N1," September 10, 2009
"Plan the Perfect Picnic!," June 30, 2009
"How to Enjoy Flowers and Stay Allergy Free," June 5, 2009
"How to Find a Job During a Recession," April 14, 2009

"Home Makeover Series Part 2: How to Get Organized," August 26, 2008
"Home Makeover Series Part 1: How to Choose Color," August 26, 2008
"Use Less Energy, Save More Money," August 1, 2008
"Inquiring Minds: How to Keep Kids Sharp in the Summer Months," July 21, 2008
"What Gynecologists Are Really Thinking," June 23, 2008

Lemondrop.com
"Breaking Up With Your Best Friend - A How-To Guide," December 2, 2009


Books

"Travel + Leisure's Europe: The Places We Love"
"Travel + Leisure's World Greatest Hotels, Resorts + Spas: 2011 Edition"


iPad

Travel + Leisure
Travel + Leisure Family, March 2011

A Guide to Upper East Side Eateries


When A. lived in the Upper East Side, we used to eat out a lot. A LOT. That has completely changed since moving in together and while I'm happy that we're cooking every day and saving money, sometimes I miss some of our old haunts and dishes. Below, a list of our favorite restaurants in the Upper East Side.

BURGERS

Brgr - I've lost count of the times we've eaten here and fully admit to dining here multiple times a week. The burgers are just so so good and the fries are just as delicious. It's a pain for me to get to now, but I still dream of making my way over for a Down on the Farm burger. Mmmm, they got me hooked on fried eggs on burgers!

Bareburger - This place prizes itself on serving organic and all-natural fare.

Shake Shack - The lines might be crazy at Shake Shack, especially when the weather is nice, but it's worth it. I like that the burgers are not huge so I don't feel so disgusting after wolfing one down and their crimped fries, lemonades, and shakes are also quite tasty.


DIN DIN

Honky Tonk Tavern - This was our go-to place when we wanted to meet someone for drinks. The nice thing is that along with some great frozen margaritas, they also had a menu filled with yummy Tex-Mex offerings like pulled pork sandwiches, tacos, burgers, and quesadillas.

Blockheads - A.'s spot for a tasty chicken quesadilla.

Chirping Chicken - This was some good and juicy charcoal broiled chicken.

The Meatball Shop - Huge Meatball Shop fan here especially of their arugula and apple salad and classic beef sliders with parmesan cream. The UES location is the latest shop in this growing chain.

Fresh Basil's - We'd order penne pasta with shrimp and share the meal because it was so much food. We'd also argue over who's eating more shrimpies than the other so maybe we should've just forked over the money for two.


ASIAN

Fatty Fish - This Asian restaurant can serve up a mean sushi roll, but I can count on one finger the number of times I ordered something than the Kobe beef burger and sesame fries. So good!

Ginza - Oh Ginza, how I loved and miss your perfect little Gyoza dumplings, miso soup, and fried rice. The sushi was quite nice, too.

Ahana - This was a newcomer in the months preceding our move and an instant favorite. A., who is picky with his General Tso's chicken was really pleased with his dish, and I, who's super picky about my Gyoza dumplings, finally found a closer restaurant that could compete with Ginza.

Yakitori Torishin - This was an experience that you need to try at least once. With the Chef's Omakase menu you'll spend a couple hours feasting on a steady stream of skewered meats and veggies grilled to perfection. Ten little plates filled with the chef's selection of fresh produce and meats of the day will really fill you up (before being served chicken and eggs over rice, soup, and sorbet!) and send you home beyond satisfied.

Lilli and Loo - Aside from dumplings, noodles are another food I could probably eat every day and not tire of it.

Dai Hachi Sushi - Another one of A.'s favorites for sushi.

Wong Finest Asian Cuisine - This was our go-to place for some greasy Chinese food.

The Nuaa - I held my birthday at this restaurant last year shortly after it opened its doors. They get you hooked as soon as you sit down with this shot of mysterious yummy delicious soup paired with an orange juice chaser to cleanse your palate before your entrée. And I always find myself staring at the carvings on their wall decor.


LATIN

El Porrón - Fiending for amazing tapas and good wine? Head to this dimly-lit romantic spot to get filled up with so much savory goodness. Don't miss the calamari in garlic sauce, Spanish veal meatballs, and the jamón serrano on toasted garlic bread.

Rosa Mexicano - Sometimes a girl is just craving a plate of short ribs with rice and black beans and a molcajete full of guacamole made fresh right at your table.

Aprovecho - Good for a quick empanada to go.


BRUNCH

Cascabel Taqueria - Yummy Mexican style brunch that includes choices like eggs benedict on corn bread with chorizo or carnets, chilaquiles with chicken and fried egg, and my favorite, huevos revueltos in green sauce. Don't forget the ancho chili-infused hot chocolate.

Johnny Foxes - Brunch in a bar setting so you know those mimosas taste good.

Barking Dog - At some point in the past year, I became obsessed with eggs benedict for brunch. This place has one of the best ones I've tasted in the area.

Yorkville Crêperie - Whether you opt for a dessert crêpe or choose a savory one, it'll be such a delight for your taste buds. My top pick: the Fungi crêpe with sautéed mushrooms, spinach, ricotta, caramelized onions and mozzarella, a house favorite.

Silver Star - A pretty standard diner that never ceased to amaze me with their expansive menu. Too bad I always stuck to the same dishes I loved. The California omelette wrap is a must-try.

Ritz Diner - The first time A. and I ordered curly fries from this diner, we devoured them in a matter of minutes and then wondered where the hell they all went. And as an orange juice snob, their fresh squeezed juice is very delicious.

Big Daddy's - The place oozes 1980s vibe and serves up tasty American foods like burgers, crispy tater tots, and thick milkshakes.


SWEET TREATS

Dylan's Candy Bar - You'll find any candy imaginable here (like gummy bears separated by color!) along with nostalgic faves.

Baked by Melissa - I went crazy for their bite-sized cupcakes when they first opened years ago and they've been steadily spreading throughout the city. How happy was I when they opened a shop in the Upper East Side last year?

Wafels & Dinges - While they have trucks that spread their waffly goodies around the city, you'll usually find one stationed at the south east end of Central Park.

Maison du Chocolat - It's always nice to treat yourself to something fancy - even if it's just a little bite.

Godiva - Last summer, A. and I decided to indulge a bit and buy their Godiva milk chocolate shake with chocolate chunks. Oh my sweet, sweet Lord…so good without being overkill.

Hot & Crusty - The chocolate rugelach from here received top marks from A.


COFFEE SHOPS

Gotham - A good place to bring over the laptop and get some work done while lunching on hot panini.

Java Girl - If you want a more intimate vibe with cushioned seats and tiny tables, head over here.

How Hard Would You Try to Have a Child?


Because taking my breast cancer medication means I can't get pregnant for the next four years, I find myself thinking about children a lot. I wonder if I'll have a boy or a girl. I wonder what we'll end up naming them. Will I have one or try for two? Mostly I wonder if I'll have any issues trying to conceive at the age of 36.

When my oncologist said I could look into freezing my eggs to use after my treatment is complete, I knew that wasn't really an option for me. When you have student loans to pay off, medical bills stacking up, dreams and a savings account to fund, that leaves little money left for a gamble. It costs $10,000 to $15,000 to harvest and freeze a batch of eggs, $500 to keep storing them each year, and then another few thousand to undergo in vitro fertilization. Conception is not guaranteed. Adoption fees are also no small investment either so it brings up the question: how badly do I want a child?

It's a discussion that A. and I have had a few times. We both agree that we don't want to go broke in order to have a baby, but who knows how we'll feel years from now. If you ask any of the elders in my family, they'll say the same thing: your life isn't complete until you have a child. The mentality is frightening especially when you consider folks who've had kids when they could barely sustain their own lives or that welfare is their answer to my hesitance over the financial burden.

Whether it's money spent to conceive or money spent to raise a child, I don't want to go into debt for this, but I still dream of holding our child in my arms, teaching them all we know, and watching them grow and play in this world. Would I be okay if I discovered that I couldn't conceive? Probably. I'd be sad, but I also hope I could grow to accept that fact, consider alternatives that are within my means, and live on. A. keeps joking about the two of us becoming DINKs (dual income, no kids) to which I reply absolutely not. At least I'm not ready to throw in the towel before the races have even begun. We'll see how our story plays out down the line and hope that our toughest decision is simply agreeing on a baby name.

What about you? How hard would you try to have a child? Would you invest all you could into making your dream happen?

P.S. "Do you find you are not yet ready to obliterate any chance you have left to enjoy life to its fullest? Then try Not Having Kids!"

And have you met Theo and Beau? If not, here's their story (and how they're growing up so fast). Aren't they the cutest things ever?

Image: instagram.com

Griottes' French Storybook Recipes for Children


How sweet are these recipes that Emilie of French blog Griottes created for Doolittle magazine? Mind you this is a couple years old, but I just stumbled upon it on Pinterest and have been loving the styling that went into each page. It gives off a storybook feel and even though you might not understand the instructions, how lovely would it be to have an entire cookbook laid out like this?

"I tried to respect the taste but also the visual, to create a little childish and playful universe," Emilie said of her creations.

To follow her design and culinary adventures (and brush up on your French), visit griottes.fr.



Images: griottes.fr